Author: uillith

Power Exchange

lovemysub:

pleasurewhore:

It’s making the doctor’s appointment I don’t think I need, because he told me to.

It’s taking a bath, or a nap, when there are a million things waiting, because he takes better care of me than I do.

It’s making a healthy choice at lunch, when a cheeseburger sounds awfully good.

It’s turning out the lights at midnight, even when I don’t feel tired.

There is power to be exchanged through sex, but power exchange isn’t only about kneeling and cock sucking. Like reducing the universe to the stars you can see, there is so much more to it than that. Power exchange is about surrendering your will to the will of another. It’s the little decisions… the ones that aren’t fun, or pleasurable. It’s knowing that you’re capable of making the decision yourself, and allowing him to make it anyway. Every concession is a piece of power pushed over the line, and your clothes never need to come off for you to be left standing naked.

Beautifully said, and absolutely true.

sadisticgames:

How much do you trust your partner?

Does this image make you nervous? 

This is not exclusive to D/s relationships, but trust is fundamental for many reasons. 

you are trusting that your partner will respect your limits. 

you are trusting that your partner will stop when you safe word. 

you are trusting that your partner knows what they are doing. 

you are trusting that your partner is not going to leave you. 

you are trusting that your partner understands you. 

That is a lot of trust, and it must be earned. 

If that trust is broken, it can be irreparable. 

Not only for that specific partner, 

but anyone they try to play with from that point on. 

If you cannot uphold that trust, stop. 

If you cannot trust your partner. stop. 

emkaniff:

emkaniff:

yall: this celebrity did a bad thing

me: it be like that sometimes 

ok this post canceled due to recent events…I was talkin about some 26 year old pop star calling things “gay” in 2007 not a 50 year old hollywood producer who’s been actively pursuing 14 year old girls since 1976

You’re just some stupid slut who flashes her tits. Shut up. Leave politics to people who know what they’re talking about.

bereth-beriadanwen-deactivated2:

Hi, I’m Sian.

These are a few of the politics/political issue based books I’ve purchased over the past few years or because wider reading is always a good option when you study a topic.

And these are my breasts.

Just because I have breasts and are comfortable enough in myself to post a picture of them to as I believe in the end of the sexualisation of breasts and the normality of breast feeding does not mean that my opinions on politics are any less valid. I am another human being that has to live under a government that targets me and my lifestyle and is going to make the next 5 years incredibly difficult for me, people like me, and people who do what I do to get by. 

So please, do not think for a second that I am not intelligent enough to form an educated opinion on something that is going to greatly impact my life just because I have breasts and choose to show them.