And people give me shit cause I’m constantly preaching communication and consent… 😒
So, you fucked up. What are you going to do about it?
You feel like shit? Imagine how she feels.
Now, you can slink away feeling sorry for yourself, or you can do something about it.
Apologize, probably by phone, because she may understandably not feel comfortable with you in her space now.
Tell her that you fucked up, not some stranger on the net. Don’t make excuses, don’t backpedal, just straight and simple.
I fucked up, I didn’t ask you what you wanted, I’m sorry, and I hope that you’re okay.
Finally. Learn. Every mistake is a lesson.
PS; there are sure to be some notes on this post that will call you every negative thing under the sun. People like to lash out. I like to believe that if you’re looking to fix what you did, then you’re not a terrible person, just dumb and inexperienced, like all people.
Again, learn from your mistakes and do your best to fix what’s broken.
before you start kissing a person be sure that you are both expecting the same experience. i am personally ashamed of anyone in the kink community who doesn’t think to ask consent before doing stupid shit. it’s good for anon to know that they made a nasty mistake and to learn from it. to look back on himself in a year and be ashamed too.
1. Assume that they are always looking for an excuse to punish you. Never, for example, accidentally eat their cheese sandwich.
2. If they force you to write down your fantasies for their reading pleasure, don’t write down anything that you wouldn’t want to actually happen at some time in the future. Once you are running naked through the woods pursued on horseback it’s usually too late to protest.
3. Don’t put off the inevitable, it will only get worse.
4. Take great care when purchasing anything for the home, as it is likely to be used as a toy sooner rather than later. Trips to home improvement store are particularly suspicious.
5. Think twice before liking any pictures on Fetlife – you’ll only give them ideas.
6. Cultivate an innocent expression. Try this out on your friends, practice makes perfect.
7. Assume every doughnut (or any other edible treat) is your last.
8. Don’t forget your manners in the throes of passion and wipe off excess bodily fluids on their chests, this behaviour is frowned upon for some reason.
9. Never ever express a dislike of anything, especially cold showers.
10. When in doubt, hide.
republished with permission by Fetlife User: superunderbabe
Not only is she gagged and blindfolded, she’s kept in place by the collar and leg cuffs, the nose hook and cable ties around her tits keeps her uncomfortable, and the tilted rod very much implies some kind of insert in a specific place.
No matter how you look at it, this is not meant to keep her comfortable.
Uie's Cage 