spankingtheatre:

hissubtobe:

I wouldn’t dare

Canes are not just for whacking bottoms.

It can not be coincidence that the pudendal cleft, known by scholars as the Cleft of Venus, accommodates an interrogating rod so perfectly.

How the smooth thin stick fits so snugly in your fleshy groove, its edge faintly touching the tip of your tingling clit.

How, when slowly drawn back and forth like a violinist’s bow, it is lubricated, gathering the sheen of your involuntary excitement.

How just a little pressure upwards, can raise you on your toes.

I see you shaved bare for me. Good. You will find obedience is rewarded.

But first, I have answers to pursue.

I tap on your labia. Rapid, firm smacks. A spanking in microcosm.

Spanked on your front bottom, how embarrassing that must be.

You yelp from the sting, but it’s the deep echo of the impacts that really makes you ache.

I slot my cane back into your slit.

Stroking. Slipping. Sliding. Back and forth.

You’re making my stick… very… wet… indeed.

Have you been touching yourself?

You know this place is out of bounds.

Yet, you also know the prize denial brings.

The glorious gift in my sole power to give.

I lift the cane, intruding deeper, raising you to your tiptoes.

Will you be a good girl?

For me?

neuralnetsandprettypatterns:

It’s so simple.

We put a trick in your head.

Every time you’re almost there – almost – almost.

Your mind pops.

You can’t remember what happens then.

Maybe you stop touching.

Maybe you just forget cause you’re too dumb to cum.

All you need to know is that you’re right back. Right back before where you were when you almost came.

Maybe it’s been an hour. Maybe it’s been a week. You don’t decide time when you’ve spent forever almost there.

You just know that Daddy decides. It’s all you ever needed to know.

I was talking to him about it this afternoon and told him its something i would need to get used to and he said that i wont be able to because timing is off for us.

instructor144:

danipup:

instructor144:

That sounds like he is preparing to end it, yes. His reasons are his reasons, I suppose.

i’m sorry to the anon for this. it’s never easy. : /

i want to say something, and i understand that i wasn’t asked, but nevertheless, i’m compelled to. i read the preface ask to this one, and i just need to say that if the only reason you’re giving a partner something sexually/submissively, especially something you’ve always been “very hesitant” about, is because you’re afraid they are going to leave you and it might make them stay?

don’t. don’t compromise yourself that way. because for one thing, you’re dropping a hard limit for an unhealthy reason. and secondly, the reason you’re doing so is never going to keep someone sticking around if they’ve already decided to move on.

lastly, you run the risk of associating that act going forward with something that leaves a negative emotional mark on you, and oftentimes, that takes a lot of work to undo.

(just a penny’s worth of advice that can be taken or left as is, and my best vibes to the anon.)

cheers,

dani

^^^^

sadisticgames:

“Treat me like a dog.” “Treat me like a child.” “Treat me like a whore.”

Humiliation. Objectification. Verbally Degrading.

It is such a mind fuck, so incredibly hot for so many people. 

But it is also such a fine line to walk. 

How does a Dominant know when they have gone too far? 

How does a submissive know when they are being catered to, or when they are being used?

Communication. This is a kink that you really have to trust your partner enough to be completely honest with them. 

If a sub is talking to a Dominant and that Dominant has a fetish for making a girl into a pig, and the sub has had weight issues in their past, that is something that needs to be spoken about. 

If a sub identifies more as a little, but the Dominant partner is uncomfortable because of things that happened in their personal past, they need to communicate that. 

I have seen and heard about many humiliation plays blowing up simply because someone was trying to power through a scene that they were in fact uncomfortable with but wanted to please their partner. 

This is a responsibility for both partners. If you are uncomfortable, let your partner know. 

On the flip side, be honest about your desires as well. 

If you want to be the little bitch in heat, bent over the fence in the back yard, then say so. 

If you want to be the little, being punished for getting into the cookies, then let your partner know. 

If you want to be the slut, pulling up your skirt in the parking lot for a ride, write it out in detail and send it to your partner. 

your fantasies are not yours alone, they are shared by many, I assure you. 

So as always, communicate, be honest, be safe, and have fun.