My Daddy got called away mid playtime (it was an emergency) while I was deep deep in subspace and not really able to even register he was gone until I started to drop I have been doing my self care but I’m extremely hurt that he would do that to the point where I didn’t even want to talk to him today when he called Do you think I should be upset or am i overreacting

submissive-seeking:

instructor144:

I’ll need you to give me more info on the nature of the emergency before I can determine if his disappearance was an “excused absence” or not.

My concern is for you @instructor144 @anon ,

No matter what the reason, work call, wife call, or illness , your brain in that state doesn’t care. It sees it as an abandonment and the sudden whiplash of chemicals will leave your emotions reeling.

I once wrote about it in the context of aftercare and subdrop here:

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Take care of yourself. Don’t make any major decisions for a week or two. Be vigilant for signs of depression (not all brains recover easily). Seek medical help if you do.

D-types listen to me. If you have a line of work where an all call is remotely possible, have a plan for this kind of emergency. And it is an emergency for your sub. Moreover, do not play when you’re on call or are the float. It’s not fair to your sub and it’s irresponsible.

sadisticgames:

you have never been more humiliated in your life.

Everyone around you is dressed up so nicely,

yet here you are, naked as the day you were born,

on hands and knees, sucking on a leather shoe.

They aren’t even using you for sexual pleasure.

you are here simply to entertain and amuse them.

It would be different if they had their cocks out.

Everything would change if they started fucking you.

But that won’t happen. It’s been made clear.

These fine people won’t be lowering themselves,

not this evening, not just to use your holes.

So you will continue to debase yourself,

following their humiliating commands,

blushing in shame as they laugh at you.

Not just because of the tasks you perform,

but because everyone can see that you are so wet,

you’re dripping all over the floor….