onelittlekingdom:

On Ignoring a Submissive as a Punishment

Imagine for a minute that a child has taken a cup of milk, and intentionally upended it on the carpet in front of his parent. Which of the following is most likely to correct the behavior from happening again in the future.

A. Immediately applying discipline both verbal and consequencial.

B. Walking away and ignoring the child.

B is what a Dom(me) is doing EVERY TIME they step back or remove themselves in reaction to a submissive breaking a rule, or misbehaving. How does one think they are correcting behavior by doing nothing?

This is the reason it makes no sense to punish someone by ignoring them. Beyond this reason, much has already been said about how damaging it is to the submisssive.

Ignoring your submissive, is ignoring your responsibility.

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JerseyDaddy🌹

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