This actually gives me a chance to write a piece I’ve been meaning to get to for awhile, so thank you for the motivation.
To begin, it’s important to define our terms here. I’ll make the distinction between “sassy” and “bratty.” A rough, crude way of categorizing things at best, but we work with what we have. To be clear: these categories are mine, and other Doms may have very different thoughts on the subject. I’m hoping so, and hoping they sound off via Reblog or Reply; this topic is one that really demands a lot of discussion.
Sassy. A girl who has a talent for snark and “a bit of a mouth on her,” a mouth that occasionally gets carried away with itself and gets her in trouble. But when their Dom says “Kneel,” they drop. I knew a lovely lady years ago who was uber-sassy. If my ardor flagged, she’d say things along the lines of “It’s ok, it’s not your fault you’re old as fuck.” Any time she walked past me as I was sitting, she’d lightly smack me on top of my bald head repeatedly (think of Benny Hill smacking the bald old man on his TV series atop his hairless gulliver). But, these bits of sassiness were grounded in a deep well of affection; she was fanatically devoted to me, and even after we parted we remained friends. I still get emails at Xmas and my birthday, or when her and her Dom/hub welcome the latest member of their vast brood.
Bratty. This is a girl who seems to have all the qualities of a “sassy sub,” but things go far beyond that, and they have very different wellsprings. She acts out. She is defiant (not “play” defiant, actually defiant). She uses drama to manipulate her Dom. She will sometimes be a flat-out bitch on wheels until she gets her way (topping much?). And all of this, at its base, is grounded in something very disturbing: when you peel everything back, the “bratty sub” does not respect her Dom. She knows he can be manipulated, she knows he’ll cave, and she works that with an often cold-blooded calculation so that she “wins.”
See the difference? Personally, I find a “sassy sub” amusing; some Doms want demure, Geisha-like subs, but I’m not one of them. I want a person. But a “bratty sub”? Yeah, no. Fuck that shit. I will shut that shit down with the swiftness.
One of my many favorites of 144. ☝️👏
A heartfelt “THANK YOU” to my friend @wiblueyedsub for finding this old piece. Now if all a y’all would kindly read this, y’all won’t have to keep sending me Asks and Messages all essentially asking “Why do you make the distinction between bratty and sassy?” 🙂
I see a lot of posts on here of slaves describing themselves as stupid and worthless, and while I understand the appeal of calling people those things; what I crave is an intelligent slave. I want someone who is witty, smart, the envy of those around her. I need someone who can push me to be better at what I do, who can engage me in conversations on a wide variety of topics, but who also wants nothing more than to be gagged, humiliated and used.
I want you to have a rich and full mind that I can explore and then use that mind to torment you. Physically I can hurt you and make you feel shame, but it’s your mind that is ultimately my greatest weapon. To learn the intimate details of the things that you crave deep down, that motivate you, and those that scare you and then pushing you to do things you would never have considered before just at the hope of hearing the words “good girl.“ I want to use your intelligence and creativity to come up with new ways to please me.
Now all I have to do is find the slave who has what I seek.
With studs being trained to rut until completion once a pleasurable feeling is felt around their member, any cow inattentive enough to stop squeezing their sphincter while a bull is in heat might be treated to a full-force anal reaming. Needless to say, the hole never works quite the same way again, and subsequent bulls even seem to prefer the feeling.
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