yournaturalstate:

Why you will be a pet

Why would a girl like you accept that she is only a pet, an animal, not even fully human? It seems like being degraded, reduced. But in fact, it’s such a simpler, better life. One that you could only hope to have, if you let yourself embrace it.

Here are a few reasons.

1. Pets are more loved than human beings. How many times have you seen that there are hungry people or homeless people or people struggling and thought, “That’s so sad” and returned to eating your lunch? Do you feel the same way about even one dog that’s homeless or one sick cat? If you want to be truly loved and adored, be an animal. We love animals. We adore them. There is a reason dogs are called “men’s best friend”.

2. It feels better to bark than speak. It is easier to meow than describe your needs. No one ever asks their cat to explain her behavior and no one is curious why a puppy has poorly chosen her words. It’s so easy to bark and show happiness or anger or agreement or excitement. To meow and express hunger or joy. Your thoughts are not complicated: why should your words be?

3. You want a tail. You want a collar. It feels like they’re missing, doesn’t it? Filling you where you need to be filled, soft and gentle. A part of you. A collar that shows you belong, that you are owned. A tail that shows your worth. To crave them in natural. Admit to yourself that you do.

4. An owner is better than a boyfriend. There is no negotiation with an owner, you are simply His. You are loyal because he owns you, you come when he calls because he owns you. You whimper at the door because he owns you. He feeds you, walks you, touches you, praises you, because he owns you. Your name in his mouth is a gift he gives you, and his praise is better than any job or promotion.

5. A pet is judged only by its obedience. As a girl, you are judged against so many expectations. Are you saying the right things? Doing the right things? Do you have the right friends, clothes, ideas? A pet is a good girl if she comes when she’s called and a bad girl if she doesn’t. A good dog learns to play fetch, not how to enter data into a spreadsheet. It will be so easy to be a good dog, a good kitten, a good puppy. Every day will feel like a success.

Aspire to be a pet.

Accept that you are less than human.

Embrace your natural state.

Dominant Prompts #56

hissubtobe:

cynicaldom:

  • Regarding disobedience, what is the difference between an excuse and an explanation?
  • How do you handle each one, and is correction necessary when the explanation is valid?

In my relationship with @amysubmits​ I will always try to understand the reason for disobedience but a broken rule will always be punished. Reasons and explanations can factor in the severity of the punishment. 

A rule can be temporarily suspended if she asks beforehand and she has a good reason. For example: If she’s swamped with work or other responsibilities she can ask to be excused from doing a daily task beforehand. If she just doesn’t do the task and then explains her reasoning after the fact she will be punished regardless. I expect her to follow the rules, but I understand she’s a human and needs leniency on rare occasions. But to receive that leniency she needs to respect me and our dynamic enough to ask for leniency, not violate the rule and then ask for forgiveness.

This works best for us because it makes things simple and clear. We will always know exactly what is expected of us both. The rules and their application are a stability in an unstable world.

  • Are there times when a submissive’s suggestions are helpful, or is topping from the bottom always unwelcome? 

I always welcome her thoughts and suggestions. She’s my partner and I respect her input more than I do anybody else’s. Topping from the bottom strikes me as a term that means a lot of different things to a lot of different people. To me it means explicitly trying to control things in a subtle way. I don’t consider her sharing her thoughts and feelings as her trying to control things. She gives me this relevant information and still accepts whatever decision I make.

Prompt source: @thedominantprompts
http://thedominantprompts.tumblr.com/post/159450094708

As to both issues, it is a matter of intent, isn’t it?

What do you do when your Dom is distrustful. When I say things like “good job” or “good idea” or “I’m fine” (when I really am fine) I always get “are you mocking me” or “what’s that supposed to mean” the passive aggressiveness is driving me up the wall.

instructor144:

He sounds like a twitchy, insecure boy. I’d advise a meta talk, though  I don’t feel optimistic about it.

Its possible he has been through abuse as well, immediately distrusting positive feedback tends to be from abuse! Even from bullies at school! I suggest asking if he is even aware that he tends to react like that! Let him know that you mean what you say, and it hurts you that he never believes you! I went through this with my partner as well and things are much better since I talked with him about it

I should probably tell you…

instructor144:

summersubgirl:

brattyprettysub:

brattyprettysub:

brattyprettysub:

If you pull my panties to the side instead of telling me to take them off, I’ll melt. It feels like an inspection, like you’re still deciding if you’ll fuck me or not. Push a finger or two into my pussy and talk to me—God, please talk to me. Remark on what a slut I am, or tell me I’m a good little girl because I’m so wet for you, or coo condescendingly about how desperate I am to be touched.

Don’t fuck me, though. Keep touching me until I’m dripping down my thighs.

Do the same thing when I’m wearing a skirt. Bend me over the nearest table, push my skirt up, and tug my underwear down around my thighs. Fuck me until you come, then walk away, leaving me wobbly-kneed and slick with your come and my own wetness.

Fuck me when I’m sleeping. Wake me up with a particularly hard thrust. When I mumble a sleepy protest, call me a fucktoy and tell me to shut my mouth before you gag me.

Make me sit on a dildo while I work. Force me to come with your cock up my ass. Mock me for how wet I get. When I say no, don’t, stop, push me down onto my knees and fuck my face, telling me it’s all my mouth is good for anyway. Rip my jeans open at the ass and finger me until I’m begging.

I’m a simple girl with simple needs, really. Just remind me that my holes are yours.

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