hypnofootfetishist:

adventuresinhypno:

mr-prism:

adventuresinhypno:

Sure fire way to make me go pretty deep while hypnotised. Make me refer to myself as Slave. Not just make me think it’s my name, but always make me use the term when referring to myself, instead of I or me.

Just thoughts right now…

This is actually true for a bunch of reasons.

First and most obviously, it’s a kink and power exchange thing. Referring to oneself like that emphasizes the power dynamic in play, and that emphasizes the giving of power, and that makes you go so much deeper into trance.

But it’s also dissociative. Exactly WHAT hypnosis is is a question we’re still working on at the scientific level, but we do know that it’s a state of focus and dissociation. Your critical factor (decision-making process) is gently guided away from making decisions and allowing your subconscious to accept suggestions, instead. Mainstream hypnosis certification courses encourage referring to a subject with language like “that arm is getting heavier” and “those thoughts are getting softer” instead of “your arm” and “your thoughts”. That dissociation between subject and what is happening helps you go deeper into trance. Referring to yourself in the third person does that too, in a really strong (and honestly really hot) kind of way.

tl;dr Yes, making you refer to yourself as Slave literally makes you go deeper while hypnotized. Isn’t science great?

Thanks for this! It’s nice to have the scientific reason why it happens that way!!

That is both hot and enlightening

sadisticgames:

geekydominant:

sunflwrprincess:

if i’m in the middle of receiving a punishment and i have to pee, i am allowed to safeword.

if my positioning is uncomfortable and keeping me from enjoying our play, i am allowed to safeword.

if you are about to punish me and i think we need to talk a little more about the supposed severity of my missteps, i am allowed to safeword.

if you just started punishing me and i realized i am not in the mental state to receive it right now, i am allowed to safeword.

if i’m not sure how to articulate my reasoning, or there isn’t really a solid reason that i want our session to stop, i am still allowed to safeword there is literally no instance in which i am not allowed to use the safeword we have agreed upon for my comfort and safety.

i will not apologize. i will not be made to feel bad. this is why there is a safeword to begin with and if creeps like dreamiedaddy wanna tell you otherwise they should be avoided at all costs bc they are not safe for you they do not have your best interests in mind they are abusers who have no business taking part in power-exchange relationship dynamics. period.

A safe word is supposed to be your ultimate way to get out of any situation with your partner: whether you’re uncomfortable, experiencing bad pain, feeling scared, or any other of a thousand reasons that make you feel the need and desire to stop the scene.

If someone tells you that you don’t need a safe word, that your safe word will be ignored for a night, or that you can only use your safe word in certain situations, you need to avoid that person at all costs.

If someone you’ve played with or your long-term partner has ignored your safe word at any point, you need to seriously reconsider your relationship with said person, because they cannot and should not be trusted.

You’re always allowed to use your safe word. You should never be made to feel guilty for using it. Proper use of safe words demonstrate trust, love, respect, and safety. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!

sadisticgames:

Baby steps. 

When dealing with panic attacks, take everything in baby steps. 

For example, take your first spanking with just a hand, no bondage, and know in advance that it’s just ten. 

Keep the scenes short, controlled, and scripted to start with, this will allow you to experience aspects of D/s and know what you can and cannot handle. 

Don’t ever feel like you have to rush or take on a lot at once. 

Take, your, time.