Its getting harder!!

fififlowergirl:

hubbywifeplaytime:

This morning was the worst morning yet, my alarm clock is now my organs trying so hard to break out. I woke up feeling so horny and 2 weeks ago i would have jumped in the shower and relieved myself. My lovely wife hated that and i bet she is reading this with a huge grin.

I just know that even if i had tried my hardest any stimulation would have just left me even more horny and desperate. Saying that i love it, instead of a quick tug in the shower im sitting here at work longing to touch her when i get home.

The anticipation of not knowing if tonight i will be let out to have a full erection and be teased mercilessly and locked back up again? or will i simply be left locked with my amazing wife using her gorgeous body to make me strain in the confined bars of my cage.

At present i like this feeling of lust towards her, the desperation to run my hands all over her body and to kiss her passionately. That’s the biggest predicament i face, i don’t want this feeling to end and i am pretty damn sure she doesn’t either. I’m locked up, she has the keys and there is no escape from the cage surrounding me and i feel drunk with the love i have for her.  

I adore this. ‘Drunk with the love i have for her.’ Every woman deserves this (so try it and lock him up).

sadisticgames:

Nipple torture and breast bondage. 

You hear it all the time, but what is it really?

What draws you to it, excites you about it?

When you beg someone to torture your nipples, 

what is it you really want them to do?

Do you want them to grab hold and pinch, twisting them cruelly? 

Do you dream of their teeth digging into the soft flesh of your breasts, 

leaving marks and bruises that will last for days?

Do you imagine them being bound tightly, 

each moment growing more and more sensitive, tender, and raw with pain?

Have you ever walked around in public, trying to hide the grimace of pain, 

as the thumb tacks in the bra torture your breasts with every stride? 

Have you felt the unrelenting dull throbbing pain of clothespin, 

and known that upon removing them, they’ll hurt so much more?

Have you felt the hot and cold extremes on your skin, 

as ice and hot wax are alternatively dripped on your nipples. 

Can you imagine nipple clamps biting into your skin, 

pulling as they start to hang weights from them, 

letting gravity itself torture you mercilessly? 

Have you felt a flogger steadily beating against your breasts, 

the sensation hightened by the bands constricting the bloodflow, 

making them more and more tender, just waiting, 

for the moment that they pull out the pinwheel… 

May I ask for advice? I got into denial recently thanks to your blog and I must say I’m more than thankful 😊 But it’s my first week of edging and I seem to be much more emotionaly unstable. I am usually very calm person, but this week every (cont)

female-orgasm-denial:

little thing makes me angry. Suddenly, I get upset very easily. Is it normal? Do you have any advice?

This is relatively common, edging is producing lots of hormones that you’re just not used to having in such quantities. When you cum you produce prolactin which basically goes through your system and neutralises many of the arousal hormones that you’ve been producing, so it can take time to adjust. But of course it also clears out the build up of ‘feel good’ hormones that makes extended denial so fucking sexy and exciting.

But I find almost everyone DOES adjust,  just give it a bit longer, rein in the edging if you are still struggling and give your body time to get used to it.

And you always have ruined orgasms that will kind of half clear out the hormones, but your reaction to those can vary wildly so try that with some caution.

But of course it’s totally okay to take a break, give yourself an orgasm, get back to normal and then try again! This is supposed to be fun, so try a few of those things and see which works best for you.

thank youuu~