Generally, I preach making a sub comfortable during bondage, during a scene.
I’m not a fan of there being pain or discomfort that isn’t specifically intended by Me.
That being said, there is something to be said for intentionally uncomfortable bondage.
Of letting a sub know, that in that moment, their comfort is not only beneath your notice, but you want them to be uncomfortable, to suffer, and that it pleases you.
So as per my usual life, I was looking at a lot of porn, and found this one pose that I really loved. So here is our beautiful young lady in that pose tied to a custom made outdoor set up.
I don’t have a name or story for her yet, if anyone has any suggestions on what she should be called, let me know!
If you like this piece, please mention it, or reblog/ favourite 🙂 The more you folks enjoy it, the more likely I am to continue doing bondage poses.
from my art blog!
Which is worse, do you think?
Would you rather see those that use you?
Or would you prefer they all come from behind,
using you for their entertainment, then leaving without a word?
Do you want to know how many there were?
Do you want to recognize them on the street?
Or would you rather not be able to meet the eyes of anyone,
not knowing if maybe they had been there,
seeing you are your most depraved,
dripping all over the floor…
The Uglier Side of Sex: See my other blogs at www.justgirlsmainly.tumblr.com and www.theeyesshowitall.tumblr.com
My personal take on being a submissive. I find most men in my life to be one thing. PATHETIC. Yep. I said it. Before you start writing the hate mail shades, read on…..
Whoa…wait…she is a sub, he biggest kinks are humiliation and degradation, and she says that?Yes. And this is why. All I have ever known in my 30-something years of life have been spineless pathetic men who don’t have the balls to stand up for themselves let alone anyone else. This is in family, love, and career. I won’t divulge into the family part. Let’s just say that lesson was learned VERY early on. My career I watched men who make life saving decisions cower to alpha women including myself ALL the time. In love, sadly I always got my way. And the more that happened, the more I pushed. I mean no one ever stopped me. So why not?
Now today I can look back and see the error in a lot of my ways. Being the cold, don’t fuck with me bitch really was not fulfilling, and after a while was no longer amusing as well. After all, it really was not what I wanted.
What do I want? I want a man. And one that I can respect. And no I don’t mean “take care of me and buy me things because I am pretty”. I mean I’m pretty. Haha. But I assure you I can and have taken care of myself for a very long time. I mean a man that has his own morals and convictions and isn’t afraid to stand up for what he believes in. Stand up for me and support me in my own beliefs. Protect me. Feed my demons and let them out. But be there to hold me when they do.
So yes I very much want all the things I blog about. I want to be bruised, choked, called disgusting names, and used like a whore. But my submission comes with one requirement. That I believe in you and respect you as a man. So maybe this is why I have such little experience. And maybe this is part of the reason I cannot do online anything.
And maybe, just maybe, if you find yourself doubting in my “true” submissiveness, the very person that you need to be looking at?
Is YOU.
To sum it all in one word. Freedom. Love is Freedom to be urself without being judged.
Always remember that a sub is as imp to a dom as a dom is to the sub. They r just different sides of same coin.
Don’t worry about not being able to do D/s online. It’s very tricky to do. Leo is exactly right, they are different side of the same coin. You must respect yourself and your partner, no matter what the roles are, for it to work. I’ve known submissive men that are more ‘Men’ than most men. Sounds like the problem with the guys previously in your life is that they were just poor human beings. Which has nothing to do with the lifestyle. Witness all the morons who send dick pics unsolicited. They don’t know how to behave around women.
Thank you for putting my own feelings into words as well! I cannot respect a man (or woman) who can’t respect themselves!
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