kinda feelin like tie references today
Month: March 2016
My fantasy has been a chase for quite a while. A primal kind of thing where I would run from my captor attempting to escape but eventually being taken down and fucked roughly on the ground. Maybe even captured and taken for constant use..
Actually, this is a fantasy of mine except from the opposite side. Usually kind of old time, riding on a horse chasing down a woman. Throw a net on her, she tumbles to the ground. Get of the horse and fuck her hard.
The movie (at the expense of showing how old and geeky I am) Zardoz had a scene where Sean Connery throws a net on a running gal and fucks her throw the holes in the net while she’s still all tangled up.
And of course I would keep her for constant use.
Great fantasy! It is a very primal thing. Thank you for sharing.
As a reminder, please send me your fantasies, either anon or otherwise, I’ll only post your name if given your permission. I want to hear your sex slave fantasies! Either submissive, or dominant, male or female!
I am a female dom to a submissive male who loves to be disgraced, talked down to and used. But I always feel like I am always ruining the moment. When I peg him with a toy, I do question him to make sure he is okay, but I still end up stopping all production and panic thinking that I might be hurting him and he is scared to tell me. I feel like I am making him unhappy. Do you have any advice to anxious doms? Thank you for reading, I love your blog btw ^^
This is actually a fairly common problems. I’ve heard from both female and male Doms that they are afraid they will ruin a scene by asking if they are okay too much. And I have the problem myself of my girl not always telling me that she’s panicking or that I’m hurting her. She admits she trusts me and everything but in the heat of the moment in a scene she gets irrational. That’s why even if you are using safe words you shouldn’t rely on them to0 much. Subs forget to use them. Know your partner, if you think you are hurting them, but they aren’t saying anything or using their safe words… ASK.
The only real advice I can give you is too relax, calm down. Talk to him about it outside of a scene. Tell him your fears. I told my girl I was very disappointed in her that she didn’t tell me she was scared until days later. But we talked about it. It’s my opinion, it’s not a good idea to punish someone for a slip like that, it’s a mental thing and I’d be afraid of making it worse.
Unfortunately trust takes time and experience, and the more you guys play the easier it gets. Not being anxious takes time too, again you need to get to know him and be able to read him.
I’m afraid there’s no fast and simple way. Just go slow, calm down, and ask if you are hurting him if you think you are.
And thank you for the kind words about my blog.
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