sulfurandvans:

When choking your partner out, squeeze the sides of the neck. Don’t push the air way. The pleasure comes from the lack of blood. Not the lack of air. Plus if you choke the airway too hard you could break it so squeeze the sides, not the front. Don’t worry. Your palm being there will be enough sensation. And don’t do it all at once either. Start soft and then squeeze gradually harder as they get closer to climax. Make sure to release every so often so they don’t black out, but not hold any longer than 30 seconds(general guideline but everyone is different). Please make sure you watch your partners body language. If any anytime they say the safeword or you start noticing them going out, STOP. This are risks involved. If you are tying up your partner make sure they have at least one hand free to give a physical “safe word”, like tapping out.
Before you do this please please please make sure your partner is 1) ok with it first and foremost. 2) that you guys already have a safe word in place(both verbal and physical). 3) that they are aware of the risks 4) trust you completely. Nothing like trying to get off while being worried the whole time. Another good idea is to talk about boundaries before hand. What’s absolutely off limits, what’s ok, and everything in between. I would strongly suggest doing research on anything you’re unsure of. Especially when there is risks involved. Read forums, talk to people, link up with your local kink community. Plus knowledge about sex, usually makes you better in bed. Usually.

And if you have any questions feel free to message me.

I get that this isn’t your “thing”, but please respect that is my thing. And a lot of other people’s thing.